Please help me to save my friend from the trauma....?

Hi,I'm trying to narrate the life story of my friend as compact as possible.She is married for 10yrs having 2 kids.Though she had a love marriage yet some facts remain hidden,they only come into light when u get married.She belongs to a conservative brahman family.After her marriage she slowly & gradually came to know that her husband is alcoholic.In fact his family had that culture where father & son "cheers"together.Initially she thought it will get over but even after having 2kids his attitude remains same.In the morning either he'll apologise or will not remember anything.One day he lost his wallet or his mobile...By every means my friend tried to make him understand but all in vague.Then one day she called her in-laws to tell them that it's no more possible for to stay with him.Some how the matter got resolved temporarily.Recently my friend came into contact with her old boyfriend.Gradually they came closer and and emotionally attached.In the meantime her husband got alarmed due to good mob.bill.On asking she divulged the truth.Then her problems got worst she is not that type at all to handle all this.Everything happened as an accident & because of her prolonged personal trauma.In addition to that her old friend came out as an advantage seeker.She fell a victim of her innocence & plight.She is getting physical & mental harement almost every day.She can't move out because of kids & loves her husband too.Her husband loves her a lot but can neither forget the incident nor quit his deadly habit,which is solelly responsible for the whole matter.Please frindz PLEASE advice& help...