Fear ysis?

As the parent of three Asian girls, I can tell you that you should have no trouble picking and choosing among prospective parents, because so many people will want to adopt your baby! I don't think you're being unreasonable about you first two requirements, but on the third issue, I don't think you should view a couple with previous children as "adopting a playmate." Most people wish to have siblings for their children so that when they grow up, they will have a loving extended family. That is why I adopted two more children after my first child - not because I wanted her to have a playmate, but because I wanted her to have more immediate family than just me when she grew up.